Issue 03. Can we stop worshipping at the altar of straight-leg denim?

Separating our self-worth from the trends we desperately want to make 'work.'

If you’ve spent any time in the #minimalist #capsule wardrobe space in the last few years, (or really any major fashion publication) you’ve heard folks rave about low-stretch straight-leg denim.

Straight-leg denim is often described as effortlessly chic, timeless, sturdy (especially if they lack stretch), all of which can be tied to an ethical / moral consciousness: we want to be responsible with our purchases, buy things that are long-lasting and don’t end up in the landfill. But if pants become a moral barometer, then what does it say about me if these morally-superior pants don’t work for me? I spent more years than I’d like to admit agonizing over finding a magical pair of straight-leg denim that I could stand to wear, even though I’d tried on—and purchased—so many.

It wasn’t until I truly sat with my body, my preferences, how I wanted to spend my time, money and effort, did I realize that 1) straight leg denim just wasn’t going to work for my curvy, verging on plus-size frame, and 2) other styles of denim can be just as stylish, effortless and enduring.

So, what’s my point?

There are no silver bullets when it comes to ethically consuming fashion. Longevity in someone else’s wardrobe does not indicate longevity in yours.

We also need a broader definition of what style is, looks like, and who can even be considered stylish. Over the last few months, I’ve focused time on finding style influencers whose bodies look more like my own, so that I can continue to tell myself the truth: any body can be stylish, not just the model-esque frames we’ve come to identify as "peak fashion.”

I also wanted to share a few specific styles of denim that I have found (through trial and error) work for me. Because we’re ultimately here for the LOOKS, right??

My tried and tested: high-rise sailor jeans

Specifically, the Anthropologie Colette jeans, which I have in two washes.

Anthropologie Colette denim

These work dressed up or down, have wonderful darts at the waist for all-day sitting, and the width on the thigh means no bunching at the knees when I sit (less adjustment required). I very often get compliments, if that’s the sort of thing you’re into.

The newest addition: Gap Baggy jeans

Gap mid-rise ultra soft baggy jeans

These are honestly so good! On my 5’8 frame, the regular length just skims the floor with flats. These have taken me from the grocery store out to dinner, and everywhere in between. I don’t feel overly dressed up but also feel like its clear I’ve made an effort. And equally important, I can sit all day in these.

Another pic of the baggy jeans, because they are just as good with a simple tee & sneakers as with a specialty blouse.

And because I really did want to find a pair of straight-leg that worked for me,

Universal Standard elastic waist ‘Weekend’ straight-leg jeans

Carrie Dayton also reviewed these on her YouTube, and although I already owned them in two sizes at the time, I LOVED seeing her review of them and felt overjoyed for all the folks who may have given themselves ‘permission’ to wear elastic waist jeans after seeing her post!

Universal Standard jeans

Whatever your version of ‘straight-leg denim’ is, I hope this post helps you give yourself permission to look inward and choose what works best for you, not the the trend-cycle.

If you enjoyed reading, I hope you’ll considering sharing with a friend who might get value from this conversation, too.